Category Archives: Rants about the self-righteous hypocrites of the world

The iBirds and the iBees, Cyber Chastity Belts

You may or may not want to read this – either way – please don’t hold it against me – I’ll be back to regular programming tomorrow (or the next day.)  :)  Oh and before we start – I want to give shout outs to Deeleea and Frankly Scarlett.  Your friendships mean so much to me!!!  Luvs to you!!!!  Xx!~Daisy!!!!

The iBirds and the iBees, Cyber Chastity Belts

My naive inner cyber child asked my grown-up real life self, “Daisy, where do cyber-babies come from?”  And I have to be honest – I was a little stumped.  Cyber babies?  Wtheck?  And why do I have an inner cyber child?

Anyway, it has been my unfortunate experience as of late, to be the target of cyber-pressure.  Say WHAT??  Yeah.  I know.  I was shocked too.  WTHECK??

Call me naive but I had no idea how similar cyber-dating was to RL dating.  IN FACT – it’s actually worse than real life dating.   Why?  Because I added the word CYBER to the front of it.  And not only does that make it SOUND worse but it also allows for a whole new breed of douchebags.  Cyber Douchebags.  And guess what?  Cyber Douchebags are SUPER douchebags.

So right here and now – I’d just like to throw it out there that I have a Cyber Chastity Belt.  And GUESS WHAT??  I don’t lower my standards just because YOU have an iCloak of anonymity which gives you more courage to cyber hit on me.  And want to know what else?   I kind of  think you’re cybersluts!  Yep.  Cybersluts.  And cowards.  Maybe I’m wrong but I have a feeling you wouldn’t DARE speak to me that way in real life.  And if I could CYBERSLAP you, I would!!!!!

HOWEVER – with that said – I think it’s completely different when two people are getting to know each other and start cyber flirting and having a little cybersexy time.  That’s normal.  And I think it’s kind of fun to have an iCrush on someone.  In fact I DO have an iCrush on someone :)  BUT!!!!! What’s NOT normal are all the dudes from UTAH fronting to be religiously devout and “ohsoMoral and wonderful” but are REALLY cyberdirty and gross!   Oh SNAP!!!  Yeah – I did  - I went there.  I said it – and I think it’s time more people started taking a stand against cyber douchebags!!  Do you really think that morals don’t translate into the digital world?

There will be no iBirds and iBees busy making iSpring happen on THIS computer with any Cybersluts.  I have cyberstandards and iMorals!!!!    And I’m not going to have a one-night cyber-fling with you just because you think the internet is a guilt-free realm.  It shouldn’t be!!!! and I DO think your computer has a virus and I DON’T want it to infect mine.

I’ve got a super-fire-wall-cyber-chastity-belt.

And just like in REAL LIFE – in my CYBERLIFE, I can’t be PRESSURED into any cyberGROSS with you.

Let’s talk dating – We’re prolly not compatible if … part 1

In an attempt to make myself more socially networked (haha!) I decided to update my status on a link-up site – “link-up” is quasi-code for dating.  HAHAHAHAHA!  Can you imagine?? Laugh out loud if you must – I do!!  I’m not in the market to date – I live in Australia and am quite content being single – but I thought it would be interesting to dabble a bit.  Want to know the results so far??

Oh I bet you are just DYING to know.  *wink*  After one week of being “updated” I’ve discovered some VERY interesting things about myself.  AAANNNDDD very interesting things about the way men try and pick-up chics online … I’ve learned which techniques are OVER USED, which seem fresh, which ones are SO DUMB and which ones make me smile.  It’s quite fascinating really!!

At first I replied to EVERY message.
EVERY MESSAGE!!!
But after getting THIRTY – yes THIRTY messages over the duration of ONE CLASS – I realized I HAVE to filter or I’ll spend the rest of my life replying to emails!!!  It’s the end of the semester – I honestly don’t have time to reply to a bajillion emails.

So how do I filter?  Which guys make the cut?  How can I possibly make that decision?  It seems so … so … so… MEAN!  And judgmental!!

I mean seriously – what if this dude happens to be perfect but his game is just a little off at the moment?  HAHA!  No.   At the moment, with my time schedule, in order for Mr. Right to actually BE Mr. Right – he’s going to have to be playing up to par.  OR if he’s playing to be a bestie and isn’t interested in anything more – he’s going to have to be funny.  :)  I could use the laughs right now!!  *cheesy smile*

Anyway – please don’t take this blog the wrong way. Part of my therapy/learning is that I am supposed to try and be more discriminating with my time because I so often feel overwhelmed with social engagements or guilty for wanting to be the introvert that I am.  My therapist says it’s OK for me to prefer not to hang out with some people.  And it’s OK if I would prefer to spend more time with A than B.

And so in the world of online dating – this is a GREAT opportunity for me to practice my filtering skills.  For example – today I read an email from a dude whose profile says that he can’t stand femi-nazis or those who are pro-choice.  Ok – I respect he has opinions on the matter.  But “femi-nazis?”  OMGOSH – I’m against Nazis but femi-nazi??  What does that even mean?? Oh so he’s against women who are feminist?  Maybe he’s not secure with his manhood?  I don’t know – I just know that he and I are NOT compatible.

#1 – we’re prolly not compatible if you use inflammatory speech and state that you hate or can’t stand a specific group of people on your profile page.  Unless of course you just can’t stand people who can’t stand other people – cuz I’m with you there!!  I have no tolerance for prejudice.  But if you are intolerant of others’views – not cool.  The world is all shades of grey – if you only see two colors – we’re PROLLY not compatible.

Anyway … funny funny … I wrote back to this guy and flat out told him that I probably hit MOST of his red-flags being that I’m not super conservative, I DO believe in women’s rights and I DON’T have a fascination with guns.  I didn’t NEED to write back – but seriously – I thought it would be better to be blunt that I’m NOT his girl.

Oh heavens.  Heavens heavens heavens.  He wrote back and asked me how I could call myself a Christian.  Hmm …

Maybe he forgot about the story where Jesus didn’t shun or hate the prostitute??

Right – and HE’S the one who is Christian …

Ok – enough out of me.  :)  I’ll keep you updated on the sweet world of online match-making as time goes on.  HAHAHAHAHA!

Hypocritical Haters are prolly ugly *gasp!* And you shouldn’t hate Disney Princesses for being Beautiful

It’s not very often that I come down from Daisy’s Drama LaLa Land Cloud and blog about non-Daisy’s Drama LaLa FUN, so you can be sure that if I felt compelled to jump up on Daisy’s Super Expensive I-Can’t-Believe-I-paid-THAT-MUCH-for-”special”-non-soap-SOAP box today (why am I such a sucker for “green” products?) I must be pretty passionate about this subject.

I don’t see any more harm in an idealistic image of beauty than in being prejudiced AGAINST beauty.

I do NOT condone a one-size-fits-all beauty mold. I think it IS harmful. But I also think going to the opposite extreme is CERTAINLY worthy of reproach.

WHY am I mentioning this today?

Because I read Nicole from “laugh outloud“‘s blog about “Fallen Princesses” from JPG Magazine and the JPG project kinda p.i. double S ed me off. I think society hates on beauty too much. WHO CARES THAT BELLE WAS BEAUTIFUL??? We should hate her for OTHER reasons. anyway …

The Project:

To capture “real life” scenarios of our favorite Disney Princesses.

The Results:

AND THE ONE THAT RILED ME UP:

GRRR!!!!I freakin’ hate Belle – but this pic is soooooooooooooooooo not cool.

THEY MISSED THE MARK!!!

The idea is intriguing. In fact I’m quite taken by the idea and would even go so far as to say I LUV the idea. Disney Princesses in real life? BRILLIANT!!! But the results? Suck big time.

Belle is being attacked by haters!

(prolly ugly ones)

omgosh – I can’t believe I just typed that! But hey – it’s prolly true!!!

Why I believe she’s being attacked by haters:

Umm hello??? Did anyone else besides me watch the “Beauty and the Beast”?? Belle was a freakin’ nerd. That’s right – she was a NERD! She was beautiful – yes – but she loved books more than make-up or push-up bras. Her favorite place in the world?? The LIBRARY!! or bookstore. You really think if Belle was in REAL LIFE she’d be under the knife?

Ok – so Disney gave her perfectly arched eyebrows and a nice rack. So what?

IF YOU STOP BEING SUPERFICIAL YOU SEE BELLE IS MORE ABOUT BRAINS THAN BEAUTY

And THIS is what makes me so angry!!! Our society (on both sides of the fence) is OBSESSED WITH LOOKS! and the people who CLAIM to be fighting AGAINST an image obsessed society ACTUALLY CONTRIBUTE TO IT! No one should be mad because Belle was beautiful. GUESS WHAT?? SOME PEOPLE really ARE beautiful. That is the LEAST of her troubles. And focusing on her looks? It’s hypocrisy in an ugly way. No pun intended – it IS ugly.

The REAL reason you should hate Belle:

I don’t hate Belle because she’s beautiful. I hate her because she represents something I had to fight very hard to overcome in my own life. Codependency.

When the Victim’s Right Advocate came to my house 2.5 years ago because the state of Utah ordered her to come I was SO MAD! I didn’t need an advocate. What did she know anyway? Well – she knew a lot.

“He hit you.”

“Yep.”

“Are you going to leave him?”

“I don’t know. I love him.”

Then she said something that changed my life.

“Let me guess, Beauty and the Beast was your favorite Disney movie?”

SHOCK!!!! How did she know? How could she POSSIBLY GUESS THAT??

It’s called “The Beauty and the Beast Syndrome”

And that is NOT a clinical term. It’s a term that some Victim’s Rights Advocates use to explain why some women think that love is enough. Because it is right? Oh – wait – it ISN’T. And it doesn’t matter how much you love someone – you can’t love them into something they’re not.

I’m going to repeat that one again – it’s important.

You can’t love someone into something they’re not.

And Belle? She gives little girls the ideas that those mean, hurtful men that they stupidly fall in love with will change and turn into princes.

Her story give girls the idea that inside every beast is a prince waiting to escape.

And if you just love him enough – if you just have faith – if he just loves you enough – it will all work out right? No.

And in REAL LIFE??

Belle wouldn’t be under the knife getting cosmetic surgery. She would be naturally beautiful, intelligent AND she’d make some really terrible love choices and probably end up hiding in the library with a couple domestic violence bruises from her beast of a partner.

And if the “artist” behind these pics wanted to take a step BEYOND superficiality…

If she wanted to step outside of her hypocrisy and look past appearances, maybe she could have photographed an incredibly powerful image of a beautiful and intelligent woman in love with a true beast (an abusive partner.)

… just a thought.

Jealousy shouldn’t equate to judgment.

Coveting shouldn’t turn into condemning.

Being a hater makes someone uglier on the inside than the person they’re hating on

(supposing the person being hated on is even ugly on the inside at all!!!)

>.< ANGRY >.< yes-indeed-ee – Rally against International Student Discrimination

Ok so if you read my blog last semester you would know that I think Australians (in general – let’s not get all defensive and angry with me here) are TERRIBLY racist.  Not just against Americans but against all sorts of internationals.  If you’re from Europe you get a free “cool” pass but the rest of us have to EARN it.  And by EARN I mean meet the few Australians who aren’t racist. >.< there aren’t many things that get me riled up – but this is DEFINITELY one of them!!!

Rally to be held at Sydney Town Hall – June 7th at 12:00pm

Exhibit A – the email I received from SUPRA – a student union at Sydney Uni – announcing a rally to be held protesting the discrimination against international students. http://twitpic.com/6n984

Exhibit B – the flyer attached to the email – http://twitpic.com/6n9ii

Exhibit C – a news story from Melbourne about a racist attack  http://bit.ly/cCtkD

I’m pretty sure I could give you exhibits d-z but instead I’ll just say that I know from first hand experience that international students ARE discriminated against.

I’ve been discriminated against for being American

and I know it’s much worse for Indian students.

And speaking of discrimination – the Australians at work are racist too!

I was so happy that I got a “cool kid pass” at work.

Next weekend some workmates are having a “cool kid” night after work and only the “cool kids” were invited.  I was pepped up about it because I’m new and that’s pretty sweet that they’re including me.  YAY!!

UNTIL I LEARNED WHO WAS BEING EXCLUDED

and then that “yay” went to – you stupid cool kids are mo-fo jack-As.  And I don’t want to be a “cool kid” if it means that you are going to sit around and make fun of my not-cool friends.  You see I’m friends with ALL the people in the store – I didn’t realize that cool kids exclude and make fun of the not cool ones.  GO TO H.E.DOUBLE COOL KIDS!!

One of the guys labeled as not cool enough told me that I’m one of the only people he likes in the store because I’m one of the ONLY PEOPLE WHO TREATS HIM WITH RESPECT AND AS AN EQUAL.  He’s Indian and therefore he is a target for all racist jokes and slander.  :( THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH THIS!!!

Ok ok – I could rant and rave about this for ages but I won’t.  Let me just make this VERY VERY CLEAR.

IT’S NOT COOL TO BE PREJUDICED!!!  AND I HOPE YOU GO TO – somewhere really TERRIBLE – and get what you deserve if you make fun of people because of their race or their nationality!!!

Are you for REAL?? Don’t hate Twitter but please make fun – oh and cool video and sweet pics. :)

Maybe I’m still pepped up from yesterday’s post but I’m throwing out a little sass today with a list of “Are you for real?”zz

  • I spied with my own little eyes some REALLY SMART GIRL on FB who said in a status comment “another weekend and I would totally of gone”  Totally OF gone?  Maybe she should totally OF gone to skool so she’d be heaps smart likes me is.
  • Ok next – Twitter Haters – are you for real?  I know you SAY you’re too busy to tweet and all because you like have a life and stuff and I know you’re totally saying it like you’re so super self-important and have better things to do with your time – but for real?  GET OVER YOURSELF.
  • And now – Twitter-maker-fun-of-ers?? Please DON’T stop because you provide me with LOLs.  Like this awesomeness:

  • And yeah … I should probably go to bed now so we’ll stop there.  Except you should see this pic that I got from fannypackantics.com’s post – Purple Rain who apparently got it from fivestrongs.blogspot.com
  • touristcloakAre you for real?  HAHA!  That cloak is magically terrible and terribly AWESOME!
  • Oh can’t forget to add THIS beautiful product that I discovered on “This is why you’re fat” .com.  It needs no comment:
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Alright then – I think I can end it there … yeah …

OH WAIT!!!!  Almost forgot this gem too.  One more for your viewing pleasure – picture from gofugyourself.com

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I need those pants.  ;) Good night!!

Facades, authenticity, presentation and you – or me

If you have been following this blog and have been reading between the lines it will come as no surprise to you that I suck at life right now.  :) Yes I put a smiley face there.  Why?  Because there’s no point frowning about it is there?  Plus it’s a bit amusing to think about the fact that someone could “suck at life” – I realize the inherent EVERYTHING in that statement mmm kay?  But I chose to use the statement anyway.  Because I do suck at life right now – but my presentation is still up to par.

It occurred to me that the only people who would know I suck at life right now are people who caught the few confessional blogs recently or the few friends I’ve let in on it.  Other than that and well – my international student adviser and my teachers at school (who OMGOSH- AGH!!!) – no one would have any clue.

Someone questioned my authenticity because I appear to have everything under control when I FEEL as if nothing is under control.  This really bothered me. Does it make me less authentic because I choose not to tell everyone I meet  that my sky is falling?  Does it make me less authentic if I maintain a certain level of vanity when my inner life is scattered and chaotic?  Why do I have to LOOK like a disaster just because my life is one?  And why the H.E.DOUBLE do I need to act like a disaster if I have personal troubles?  I don’t!!!

Life is what you make it.  I can control SOME things.  Other things are outside of my control.  The things I CAN control – I do.  Why does that make me not authentic?

Ok so I maintain appearances.  I participate in the normal life activities.  I still LAUGH and SMILE and crack jokes and go to parties even though I’ve cried more in this past few months than I have in the past year.  THAT DOESN’T MAKE ME FAKE!  It just means I’m a fighter and I’m fighting to be happy.

I believe our thoughts follow our actions.  And even when my thoughts are less than happy I still try and live a normal, happy, active life.  Why is that such a crime?

What do you think?  To be authentic do you need to ACT depressed when you FEEL depressed?  Is it ok to look good when you’re not feeling well?  Does it make you fake to seem happy, in control, and on top of the world when you don’t always feel that way?

I think the next person who questions my authenticity because they ASSUMED my life is perfect and they ASSUMED I’ve had a trial-free past just because I choose to be happy and I LOOK happy – I’m going to tell them to shove it.  Just because THEY can’t maintain appearances when their life is going to pieces doesn’t mean that I have to follow suit.  :P

Sometimes I like to play Devil’s Advocate

Sometimes I like to play Devil’s Advocate. And sometimes I like to throw the words of well-respected “peace practitioners” back in their faces – especially when they are hypocrites.

I’m not going to sit back and be brain-washed. I’m also not going to pretend that their very prejudiced teachings are peaceful and tolerant.

I may not be PRO-religion myself – but I will not listen to them preach about the inferiority of those who are religious. Why am I the only person in my classes who seems to understand that I’m in a very prejudiced and racist course? I DON’T EVEN WANT TO STUDY PEACE and I can see that they are super hypocrites. So why, why, why can’t these students – who claim they are passionate about peace … WHY CAN’T THEY SEE IT?


Second of Five Reflections

We discussed the three types of violence (e.g. structural, cultural, and direct) in class this week. I would like to return to the example in my first reflection as the foundation for this entry. With the help of my readings and the discussions in class, I have been able to look at the previous experience in more depth and with a different light.

Today I wish not to dwell on the conflicts my experience presented, but on how the lack of protection for religious privacy can lead to religious discrimination and prejudice which is a form (according to definitions by Galtung and classroom discussions) of cultural violence. I also believe that the way in which religion is discussed and criticized by Galtung breeds discrimination and ironically encourages exactly that which he wishes to abolish.

As the world becomes increasingly more educated and the horrors which religions have inspired are brought to light, it is impossible to dismiss the cloud of reasonable doubt hovering around the likelihood that organized religion was intended to be more than merely an institution of control, fear and war. Put more simply, I understand the arguments that organized religion is corrupt.

It becomes exceedingly more difficult to find an academic who carries a firm belief in a religion. How can you dismiss the repeated violence? How can you dismiss the horrors? The attempts at Genocide? The millions of deaths in the name of a Higher Power? All caused by religion!

An example of how pervasive the attitude that religion is wrong within the world of academia is the religion class I attended. There were only two students in the class who professed to have any belief in religion or in a God. Each and every other student took the time to not only announce their superiority in intelligence for rejecting religion (and I make this as a statement of fact) but made a point to explain that they achieved this “new intellectual plane” through personal growth and knowledge (signaling that those who do not share their views are not as advanced or informed.) One girl even stated that she feels “sorry for Christians because they are so in the dark.” Another explained during the break that if you are intelligent and logical, at all, that you MUST discount religions and see them for what they “really” are.

I have no major qualms with these opinions. I personally have doubts with regard to the legitimacy of organized religions myself. The new trend in developed countries is to attach oneself to Atheism or Agnosticism. But for the sake of playing the devil’s advocate and in light of my new understanding of cultural violence, I would like to argue that this belief system (like any belief system can) has created a new culture, a very limited, and incredibly prejudiced culture – which by definition can cause cultural violence.

The deep-rooted yet unstated belief in the superiority and advancement of those who can see religion without rose-colored glasses inherently fosters the belief that those who choose to follow a religion are in the dark, not as intelligent, and/or inferior. A great portion of the academic world, in general terms and by nature, breeds a culture of contempt for religion. This breeds discrimination. But instead of discriminating based on religion (which is arguably one of the reasons religions are corrupt) they discriminate based on religion under the guise of “intellectual advancement.” You are either agnostic or atheist or you are not smart.

Galtung clearly indicates that religion is a form of cultural violence. It’s his first example in our readings. He makes valid and well-founded arguments about how religions create rationalizations for inequality, racism, prejudices and discrimination.

He does not offer religion any credit for their core belief systems or for their foundation of culture apart from their corrupt leaders. There is no doubt that Galtung rejects organized religion nor is there doubt that he wishes to expose religion as an institution that should be abolished in order to establish positive peace.

By creating this definition of religion, Galtung sets up his own class system. Those who follow a religion vs. those who see it as a corrupt institution needing to be abolished. I think he explains (albeit unintentionally) the danger of this better than I could.

“The lines may no longer be drawn between God, the Chosen, the Unchosen, and Satan. Modernity would reject God and Satan but might demand a distinction between Chosen and Unchosen; let us call them Self and Other.
…A steep gradient is then constructed, inflating, even exalting, the value of Self; deflating, even debasing, the value of Other. At that point, structural violence can start operating. ”

Galtung claims that “modernity” equals rejecting God and Satan. So those who DO believe in God and Satan have not reached the same level of intellectualization. The Chosen now become those who are atheist and agnostic, those who are intellectually advanced enough to see religion as corrupt. The Chosen become the ones who have grown in wisdom enough to be able to change the world. The “other” or “unchosen” become those who are religious. Those who are not as advanced (according to his own definition) and those who (as long as they hold onto their religious beliefs) do not carry the power to create positive peace.

Galtung himself cautions about the dangers of firmly held beliefs of “self” and “other” which I argue can be applied to his disdain for religion. “…And certain tenets of belief in modernization, development, progress are seen as apodictic; not to believe in them reflects badly on the non-believer, not on the belief.” To believe in religion, according to the teachings of Galtung, can be seen as not believing in modernization and this, he admits, (within the structure of cultural violence) can reflect badly on the non-believer.

Cultural
violence can absolutely be fueled by religion. Creating a “superior” culture of people who reject religion can also fuel cultural violence. And a belief system that defines Self (e.g. agnostic) as superior to Other (e.g. religious) fosters inequality which can result not only in cultural but also in structural violence. This anti-religion culture, which often falls under the sheltering arm of academia, provides rationalizations for this Self vs. Other, anti-religion belief system.

Galtung, in describing exactly what is wrong with religion and ideologies, explains perfectly what he is doing himself: fostering, rationalizing and excusing a form of cultural violence.

I WAS discriminated against during the classroom break after announcing my religious orientation. Students DID say I was a member of a “crazy sect” and whispered about it in front of my face. I was immediately rejected for my belief. The culture of anti-religion that Galtung encourages may be just as dangerous as the culture of religion which he abhors.

Hate is wrong – all around. EXCEPT it’s ok to hate the United States.

I don’t think the USA is perfect. I understand there are logical criticisms of the way our country is run. And if someone has a problem with America – ok. You probably have good reasons.

That’s not what this is about. This post is because I’m sick of people preaching tolerance for everyone EXCEPT Americans. If you preach hate or intolerance in any form – even if it’s only for anglo-America – you are NOT PREACHING PEACE. Stop pretending to be peaceful and tolerant unless you are ready to be tolerant to EVERYONE, including Americans.

Today an Australian girl in one of my classes said, “I feel bad that cultural sensitivity in this country covers everyone but Americans.”

I agree.

The fact of the matter is that the world, in general, preaches tolerance for everyone but Americans. The Peace Studies textbook I’m reading today, distributed by the lovely University of Sydney, clearly states that the world’s problems are the fault of the U.S. And the only way to make the world a better place is to boycott the U.S. Empire.

Johan Galtung a leading peace researcher says in my textbook, “Most of the sources of violence in the twenty-first century are globalized, privatized, monetized capitalism; the US empire expanding that system also by military means including the encircling of Russia-China-India (40 percent of humanity); the contradiction between 2,000 nations, 200 states and 20 nation-states basically with one nation Peaceful solutions include better distribution/alternative economic systems, boycott of the US empire…

Clever wording Johan. The 21st Century began only 8 years ago. But “century” makes it sound like the U.S. has been the problem for AGES. And did you forget about the RELIGIOUS war over Palestine? That’s been in the 21st Century too. And it’s not because of the U.S. or because of capitalism.

Oh and hey Johan – why didn’t you mention the 20th century? Oh that’s right … because WWI, WWII, the religious wars over Palestine, the Tutsi Genocide in Africa… etc. you can’t blame those on the U.S.

Did you know that NONE of the armaments for that horrendous Tutsi slaughter in Africa were supplied by the U.S. No … they were actually all supplied by the European States that criticize the U.S. for the amount of weapons the U.S. has. You see, it’s not ok for the U.S. to have weapons but it IS ok for THEM (the people who criticize) to make money selling weapons. I think if you’re so anti-weapons that you probably shouldn’t make them yourself.

But it’s all good. The world and the violence in the world can all be blamed on us. There would be no war – no conflict – no suffering – if everyone in the world could hate the U.S. together.

Forget about hating someone over a difference in religion. Forget about hating someone over the color of their skin. You only need to hate someone if they come from Anglo-America. It’s that simple.

And as far as the problems in America – let’s not hold any other nation accountable for similar problems. Americans – who are not humans and don’t deserve the basic Human Rights of respect and dignity – are the only ones who should be criticized for their mistakes. Because like Johan said – it’s the whole world against one and that’s the PEACEFUL solution.

Umm … you’re a hypocrite.

Sunday night I was advised that I better lose my American accent QUICK (I’m sure he meant to say quickLY) but I’ve learned to be fluent in Aussie bad grammar so that I may still communicate with those around me. I looked at him in what could not be mistaken for anything but incredulity and he continued on insulting me helping me like a kind friend should do.

“Oh no. You’ve gotta lose that quick.” He said again. “The American accent is the worst in the world. You definitely don’t want to have that. People don’t like Americans. You don’t want people to hear that you’re American straight away.”

I studied his face to see if he was completely insane and serious or if he was teasing. He was serious.

I’m living amongst hypocrites people who CLAIM to be so much better and tolerant and relaxed and chill etc. etc. etc. than Americans yet who feel COMPELLED to not only be prejudiced but to let every American they meet know how inferior THEY THINK Americans are to the rest of the world.

Huh. That’s ridiculous interesting.

Maybe they share these things with me because think I’m “savable.” Maybe I should be flattered that so many people are looking out for me.

I’ve heard people say that they only hate Americans because Americans think they’re better than Australians. Guess what? I hadn’t ever given Australia more thought than a geography book before I met Davide. AND I don’t know a single American who goes around thinking they are better than Australians. WHY? BECAUSE WE HAVE BETTER THINGS TO THINK ABOUT THAN WORRYING IF WE’RE BETTER THAN AUSTRALIANS!!!!

Hate us for being self-absorbed. Don’t hate us because we think we’re better because we don’t waste time worrying about if we’re better or not. We have 10 times the amount of people living in our country – and that means we are VASTLY different. You can’t compare apples to oranges. And though Australia does so many things BETTER than the US – the US does a few things better than Australia.

Australians (though thankfully not all of them) hate us because THEY THINK we think we’re better. But if they’d get their head out of their “arses” maybe they’d realize the only people worried about who is “better” is the Australians.